Sunday, September 8, 2013
The Antithesis of Violence: “Walk Humbly With Your God” [Micah 6:8]
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Reflections May, 2013
Reflections
From The Heart
May, 2013
Rabbi Gary S. Creditor
In these days of transition, I reflect on my nearly forty years as a pulpit Rabbi, the avocation I chose in my youth, and think of the many aspects of my life and labors. I sincerely say that I am glad and proud that I became a Rabbi, though when I first told my parents of my desire I really had no idea of the journey that lay ahead. I have learned along the way what it means to me to be a Rabbi. I give thanks for the privilege of having served the families of my congregations, the Jewish people, and most of all, to serve God.
It is impossible to rank the importance of one section of my ministry over another. It is also impossible to separate my service to one congregation apart from the others. The years and experiences all combine into one extended mission. Yet I can delineate some of them and indicate how precious they have been to me.
Perhaps the most important part of being a pulpit Rabbi is that I have had the honor of serving the families of my congregations. There is much that is seen by others, officiating at the simchas of brit milah, simchat bat, bar/bat mitzvah, weddings and anniversaries. In honoring the dead I have served them and the living. Yet for each and every moment there have been many private hours where hearts have been opened and shared, hands held, hearts uplifted, tears dried and steps forward have been assisted. Many have sought my counsel for individual needs; all that has remained private. I learned to make place in my heart for each and every one of them. I tried my best to find the pieces of our Judaism to help guide our people through joys and sorrows, crises and celebrations. I have been their Rabbi and their friend. God has been our eternal companion.
When I thought of being a Rabbi, I always saw it inside the context of the synagogue. Yet I have had the golden opportunity to represent us and our faith to the greater community through interfaith work like our Thanksgiving service and the 9/11 observances. I have guest lectured for private Christian religious schools, hosting them in our sanctuary, served on the board of the Virginia Interfaith Center for Public Policy, and taught guest classes at the local universities. Invocations in the legislature, for country boards, societies and organizations, baccalaureates for high schools, have allowed me to present the messages of Judaism to wide constituencies. I have always held my head up high.
In my student pulpit I first experienced the joy of welcoming seekers into Judaism and into the Jewish people. It has continued throughout the years. I had to learn how to reveal our faith, our practices, our history, in an honest, open and endearing manner. They gave me their trust, which was most sacred, as they charted a new spiritual path. For six years I knew every pothole on 64 between Richmond and Norfolk as we travelled there to use the Mikveh. In 2001 we opened our Mikveh Mai Chayyim, The Waters of Life. I never dreamt of building a Mikveh. It necessitated much study and expanded my horizons. Ultimately our Mikveh serves the entire central Virginia area for every Rabbi and community. My heart is filled with great joy to see the Mikveh used for more than just conversion, by brides and grooms, after traumatic times, for holiness. I am most blessed for the opportunity of this mitzvah.
I have learned tenfold in preparation for teaching, more than I ever learned before. Beginning the with Lehrhaus program, the never-ending Talmud class that never misses a digression and tangent to follow, the Torah class that never omits a question that can be asked, the three Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah Programs here and the two that I did before, the Confirmation Classes where I tried to teach Judaism at a higher level, the creation of the Ba'alay Keriyah Society to bring adult and youth to read Torah, this has been the joy of joys, the high point of every week.
I only looked forward one year at a time. Looking backward forty years is overwhelming. I wouldn't have given this up for anything else in the world. I thank God for the woman who has stood behind me and more so beside me. Without Ruby I could never have followed this dream. I thank God for our children and the joy and nachas they give us daily, and the grandchildren who fill my heart. I thank God for the privilege of being a Rabbi. On the pulpit or off, it is what I shall ever be. I thank Temple Beth-El and the congregations of forty years for the privilege of serving them and their Rabbi.
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
“I Wish You Enough”
Thursday, May 2, 2013
Rabbi Gary Creditor: "The Kotel: A Wall with a Human Heart"
"The Kotel: A Wall with a Human Heart"
May 3rd, 2013 -- Rabbi Gary S. Creditor
"There are people with hearts of stone.
There are stones with the human of man."
[Song:'HaKotel']
In June, 1967, after spending days in Hammarskjöld Plaza in New York City demonstrating on behalf of Israel during the Six Day War, little could we have anticipated that it would be six days and a victory of such a magnitude, we were all distraught that perhaps it would be catastrophe and so we were praying non-stop and reciting every Psalm in the book, my little six transistor AM radio blurted out the words: "HaKotel b'yadaynu, haKotel b'yadaynu!" "The Kotel is in our hands! The Kotel is in our hands!" It will be forty-six years ago this coming Wednesday. For a place I had never been and only seen black and white photos of a few people, mostly old and in ancient garb, I cried copious, ceaseless tears. Brought up with the 1948 Armistice borders that left the Old City with the destroyed Jewish Quarter and the Kotel in Jordanian control, I never dreamt that Jews would again stand at the Kotel, never mind that I would touch its stones.
In the first days of September, 1968 I went to spend my third year of college studying at the Hebrew University on the Givat Ram campus and live and study in the Seminary Center in Jerusalem. The first Shabbat afternoon, sunny and warm, I walked the long distance from my dorm into the Old City, down the Street of the Chain, following a simple sign – "Kotel" – no security posts - turned right, turned left and in the distance was the Kotel, all ablaze in the afternoon sun. Few, if any, events in my entire life has equaled that moment. My heart nearly stopped. While the Kotel itself is only but two thousand years old, the place on the upper mount has been venerated as the center of the Jewish people for nearly three thousand. I felt all that history in a single moment. It was crushing. It was exhilarating. Everything that I had ever read in books moved before my eyes. Slowly, very slowly, I walked down to the Kotel. While there was a mechitza, it was simple. Most people were dressed in the typical Israeli style of white shirt, slacks and sandals. No one was yelling "Mincha". There were no siddurim strewn about. It wasn't a synagogue, a shul. It was just -- the Kotel. The picture of the young paratroopers who had liberated the Kotel barely a year earlier was alive on the faces of everyone around me. This place, this city, Ir David, home of the Temples, direction to which my synagogue faced, the word that was so frequent on my lips in prayer, the embodiment of our hopes and prayers, the aspiration of our people's dreams, the incarnation of all our long and often torturous history, was ours. I stood before it in rapt silence. With awe I traced the indentation on the stones and placed my head on my arm leaning against the Kotel and cried and prayed.
That year I would return often to the Kotel. In those days of my youth I came to the Kotel late at night and stayed up just to see the changing of the sky's colors from the deep darkness of night through all the colors as the sun would eventually rise over Har HaBayit, the Temple Mount and the shadows would move and then disappear from the Kotel. Sometimes at night groups of students from different yeshivot would dance and sing their way to the Kotel's courtyard and sweep everyone up with them in uncontrollable joy. And when they would leave, silence would embrace the area, except for the cooing of the birds as they flitted about.
Those are my sweet memories of the Kotel.
The intervening years from 1974 when Ruby and I returned to the States after a year of study in Israel, which included being their for the Yom Kippur war, until 2001, my next visit, much had changed at the Kotel. It became a vast Orthodox synagogue and while intended or not, it was very clear who was welcomed and who was not, even on the men's side of the mechitza. The Kotel, the women's gallery, its plaza and the area inside was ceded to ultra-Orthodox control. The State of Israel is not an orthodox entity. The orthodox are not the majority of the population. The Jewish world is not mostly orthodox. Neither are most of the Jews of the Diaspora when we come to visit Israel. Yet this heart of Judaism, this sacred place which was never a synagogue in its entire tortured history, which should not be seen as a tourist attraction but rather as the national hearth of the Jewish people, has been run as an orthodox shteibel. No expression of Judaism other than orthodox was permitted.
In the recent visits, the Kotel became the least place in Israel that I wanted to visit.
When our daughter, Rabbi Chaplain Yonina Creditor was studying in Israel and participated with the Women of the Wall, we saw the video of the men throwing chairs at them over the mechitza and cursing at them. If we wanted to organize a Bar Mitzvah at the Kotel we couldn't. If we wanted to organize a Bat Mitzvah at the Kotel, we certainly couldn't. All that the majority of Jews in the world do, could not be done at our Kotel. Those young Tzanchanim, paratroopers did not liberate it for the orthodox. They liberated for the entire Jewish people.
The celebration of Yom Yerushalayim – the day of Jerusalem's liberation and reunification in 1967 - this year will very different. I rejoiced in learning of the decision by Nathan Sharansky, especially appointed by the Prime Minister to solve this dilemma. His solution is to extend the Kotel Plaza to the right, southwards by dismantling the ramp to the mount which is not used and refurbish the area so that a much larger portion of the western wall of the Temple mount will be accessible for the rest of the Jewish people. I don't really care into which stone I insert my kvitle, my note. In this area we, the widest reaches of the Jewish people will be able to celebrate with our siddurim, with our girls and women wearing talitot, conducting our services with the dignity and honor they deserve. This is really a time for celebration.
Secondly, the Jerusalem court has ordered the police to cease and desist arresting women who wear talitot in the current women's section, on their side of the mechitza. The court ruled that so dressing was not considered disturbing the peace. This is the very first time that a court has issued any ruling supporting a pluralistic and tolerant approach to actions at the Kotel.
With a candidate for the position of Chief Ashkenazic Rabbi who is open and more receptive to the different pieces that make up the Jewish people, perhaps we have surmounted the divisiveness of religion in the State of Israel and have turned the corner leading to a path of better understanding and respect. Perhaps more of the general Israeli population will be able to view Judaism in a more attractive and endearing way. While the Messiah has not yet come to settle all disputes among the Jewish people, never mind the world, perhaps his coming is just a little closer.
Shabbat Shalom
Rabbi Gary S. Creditor
rabbigarycreditor.blogspot.com
Thursday, April 25, 2013
Rabbi Gary Creditor: "I Have Several Questions" - Sermon for April 24, 2013
I Have Several Questions
Rabbi Gary S. Creditor
Richmond, Virginia
April 26th, 2013
[This sermon is written in response to the actions or lack thereof in the United States Senate. It is delayed a week because of the tragic events in Boston and the priority of responding to those moments.]
I Have Several Questions:
1.
I would like to ask the NRA just one question: "What is your proposal to reduce gun violence in America?" I could ask them many questions, but this one is the most important. I don't need to search for statistics. I don't need to study the Second Amendment. I don't care who is a liberal and who is a strict constructionist.
But this I do know: that every day I open the Richmond Times-Dispatch, every single day, there is another report of violence with a gun.
It doesn't matter if some one is killed (oh yes it does!).
It doesn't matter if they are wounded (oh yes it does!).
It doesn't matter if children and elders are frightened out of their whits (oh yes it does!).
It doesn't matter if its part of a robbery, a spurned lover, or a broken marriage.
It doesn't matter in what part of the city its takes place (no it does not!).
It seems to me that every single day of every single month throughout the whole year, that some place in the tri-cities area of Richmond, Virginia there is violence perpetrated with a gun.
My personal reading of the newspaper every single day tells me not to believe anyone who says that the rate of gun violence has diminished. No it has not! Cumulatively, either in robberies, woundings, murders, terrorizing, or other acts of criminality, guns are increasingly wreaking havoc in our society, endlessly, ceaselessly and with impunity.
The NRA does not want to infringe on anyone's right to have guns.
The NRA does not want to infringe on anyone's rights to have guns that fire many rounds in very quick succession.
The NRA does not want to infringe on anyone's rights to have magazines for guns that will enable them to fire many rounds in the minimum of time.
So I have only one question for the NRA:
"What is your proposal to reduce gun violence in America?"
"Do you really care?" Or maybe not?
"Don't tell me what you won't do! Tell me what you will do!"
Is all we get is silence? All we get are more guns?
2.
I have a question for the Senators in the Congress of the United States:
"Do you read the daily paper?
Do you pay attention to the articles on gun violence on the streets of every single city, town, hamlet and village in this country?
Have you ever buried a person killed by a gun?" I have!
"Did you ever stare into their grave?" I have!
"If you were there, what were you thinking?
Where you standing there calculating how many votes you would gain or lose?
Where you considering your personal score with the NRA?
Or did you just stop and think what this dead person could have done
with their life instead of being in their grave?"
I ask every single Senator, man or woman: "Are you a 'man' or a mouse?"
"What is more important to you – being re-elected or saving a life?" And not just one life, many, many lives! "Do you care?"
3.
I have another question for everyone who hears this sermon in our Sanctuary tonight or who reads it on the listserv or in any other electronic media:
"What have you done to help reduce gun violence in America?"
Have you signed petitions to the President, Senators and Representatives?
If so, how many? How often? And if you have, don't stop now!
Have you marched in the streets?
Have you lain down on the ground as I did in Capitol Square as if I was dead?
Imagine lying down, in silence on the cold ground looking at the sky
through leafless branches, not moving and thinking that you are dead?
Have you talked to your children about guns?
Have you talked to your neighbor about guns?
Or have you pulled on blinders and said: "Hear no evil; see no evil; know no evil"?
But it is right outside our door! Gun violence is not a City of Richmond "problem." It is not an Henrico County "problem." It is not a Chesterfield, Hanover or Goochland Country "problem." It is everybody's problem. Every preacher from every pulpit can echo these words about their own locations.
It knows no borders.
It knows no age.
It knows no gender.
It knows no race, no ethnicity, no color.
Gun violence is an equal geographic, demographic monster.
It kills Presidents, Senators, leaders, and the unknown.
It destroys the rich and the poor.
It is, in truth, the Malach HaMavet, the Angel of Death. As different from the Pesach ditty of Chad Gadya, it is we, not God, who must conquer the Angel of Death.
In the Book of Leviticus, 19:16 we read in the Hebrew: "Lo ta'a'mod al dam ray-eh-cha, Ani Adonay." The last two words simply mean "I, YHVH – translated as 'Lord/God.' In the verse its purpose is to given the ultimate imprimatur of our God upon the first half of the sentence. There are many attempts to translate it:
"Do not profit by the blood of your fellow."
"Do not stand aside the blood of your fellow."
"Do not stand by the blood of your fellow.
"Do not rise up against the life of your fellow."
I prefer the simple literal translation: "Do not stand ON your neighbor's blood."
Whether we walk here or there, in public or in our backyard, in one part of the city or another, the very earth is stained, sullied, desecrated, violated by the blood shed anywhere.
Are we capable of literally – not figuratively - standing on, walking on the blood of others?
Who will answer my questions?
Shabbat Shalom